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Understanding Your Cycle Phases: What You’ve Been Missing & How It Gives You Back Control

For too long, I thought my body was unpredictable.

Many women tell me they’ve had pain since their teens, yet still feel like their cycle dictates every plan – just like I did. “Since I was 13 I’ve had to cancel plans or call in sick every month – now I’m 28 and nothing’s changed.” If that sounds familiar, you’re definitely not alone. And it’s not your fault.

Because the truth is: most of us were never taught how our cycle actually works – beyond “you bleed once a month.” The missing piece? Understanding the four distinct phases of your hormonal cycle – menstrual, follicular, ovulatory, luteal – and what they mean for pain, energy, mood, and more.

When you begin cycle tracking, you create a body-map. You stop waiting for surprises and start predicting when symptoms like inflammation, fatigue, or pain will peak. That kind of awareness is power.

 

What Are the Four Phases & Why They Matter

Menstrual Phase

  • Day 1 = first day of bleeding.
  • Oestrogen and progesterone are low.
  • Energy often drops; cramps, mood dips, and fatigue are more likely.

Follicular Phase

  • Begins once bleeding ends, lasting until ovulation.
  • Oestrogen rises steadily as the body prepares for ovulation.
  • Energy often rises, mood brightens, and pain sensitivity tends to lessen.

Ovulatory Phase

  • Peak fertility: oestrogen surges.
  • Some women notice mild discomfort or spotting.
  • Pain modulation improves during this phase – a study found women report reduced pain sensitivity around ovulation (Rezaii et al., 2012).

Luteal Phase (Premenstrual)

  • Progesterone rises, then falls before menstruation; oestrogen fluctuates.
  • Inflammation increases, which can heighten cramps, bloating, and mood changes.
  • Pain sensitivity often returns, making this a challenging phase for many.

 

The Science of Cycle Phases & Pain

Science backs up what so many of us feel.

  • Veldhuijzen et al. (2013) found that pain-related neural processing shifts across cycle phases – women in follicular or ovulatory phases process pain differently compared with luteal or menstrual phases.
  • Samaan et al. (2022) showed that pain perception is significantly higher in the menstrual and premenstrual phases compared to mid-cycle.
  • Rezaii et al. (2012) demonstrated that ovulation is often associated with lower pain sensitivity, thanks to oestrogen’s role in pain modulation.

These changes are linked to hormone fluctuations (oestrogen, progesterone), inflammation, and nervous system sensitivity.

 

My Story: Tracking Changed Everything

For years I dreaded making social or work plans. I never knew if my period would leave me curled up in bed.

When I began tracking my symptoms alongside cycle days, I saw a clear pattern. Pain and exhaustion peaked at the same times each month. That small awareness changed everything.

Instead of being blindsided, I could plan ahead:

  • Rest more during my luteal phase.
  • Schedule lighter tasks when pain was likely.
  • Meal prep in advance.

That gave me confidence I hadn’t felt in years – the kind of control that transforms your relationship with your body.

 

Client Story: From Chaos to Clarity

One client tracked just two symptoms – pain and energy – over three cycles.

She discovered:

  • Pain always spiked in her luteal phase.
  • Energy rose sharply during her follicular phase.

By anticipating the shifts, she adjusted her rest, used heat therapy, and leaned on gentle movement when needed. Her reward? She skipped several sick days – and told me, “I finally feel like I can trust my body again.”

 

Practical Action Steps: Track Your Cycle & Reduce Pain

You don’t need expensive apps or complicated tools to benefit from cycle awareness. Here are simple steps to start today:

1. Start a Symptom Journal

  • Mark day 1 of your period.
  • Note 1–2 symptoms daily (e.g. pain level, mood, fatigue).
  • Use paper, calendar, or app – consistency matters more than format.

 

2. Learn Your Phases

  • Identify menstrual, follicular, ovulatory, and luteal phases.
  • Watch for signs like temperature shifts, cervical mucus, and energy changes.

 

3. Adjust Lifestyle by Phase

  • Menstrual & luteal phases: prioritise rest, eat anti-inflammatory foods, try gentle yoga or walking.
  • Follicular & ovulatory phases: use your higher energy for strength workouts, creative projects, or nutrient-dense meals that support hormone balance.

4. Plan Ahead Strategically

  • Use your cycle knowledge to schedule work, social events, or downtime.
  • Communicate with loved ones about when you may need extra support, avoiding last-minute stress.

 

FAQs About Cycle Tracking

Do I need expensive tools or apps?

No. Even simple journals are effective. A systematic review (Mackenzie et al., 2024) shows that apps and instruments help, but low-tech tracking is just as valuable.

What if my cycle is irregular?

Tracking is still worth it. Over time, you’ll gather data on your own rhythm, even if cycle length varies.

Can cycle tracking really reduce pain?

While it doesn’t “fix” everything, studies show that awareness plus small adjustments can significantly ease symptoms. And psychologically, regaining agency reduces stress and enhances wellbeing.

 

You’re Not Alone – You’re Reclaiming Your Power

Your cycle isn’t arbitrary. There is a rhythm to your hormones, pain, mood, and energy. Once you recognise it, you stop surviving and start planning.

If you’ve ever felt powerless, start simple: jot down your cycle day and one symptom. Over time you’ll see your unique pattern. It’s not about perfection – it’s about rebuilding trust with your body.

 

Ready to Take the Next Step?

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